How to observe etiquette and social customs in South Korea
South Korean social etiquette centers on respect for hierarchy and cleanliness. Use two hands for all exchanges, keep your voice low in public spaces, and always remove your shoes when entering a home or traditional establishment.
- Use two hands for everything. When giving or receiving anything—money, a business card, a drink, or a gift—use both hands. If your other hand is busy, place your left hand under your right elbow as a gesture of support.
- Respect the hierarchy. Age and social position dictate interaction. Always bow slightly to those older than you. Avoid calling people by their first names until invited to do so, and pay attention to who pours the drinks at a meal; the youngest or most junior person should pour for the group.
- Master the shoe rule. If you see a raised floor area at an entrance, take your shoes off. This applies to homes, some traditional restaurants, and temple interiors. Look for a rack or a designated drop-off zone for footwear.
- Keep public spaces quiet. Talking loudly on the phone or in person on public transit is considered rude. Keep conversations to a whisper, and use headphones for all media.
- Practice table manners. Do not pick up your chopsticks or spoon until the eldest person at the table has started eating. Never stick your chopsticks upright into a bowl of rice, as this mimics funeral rites.
- Is tipping expected?
- No. Tipping is not part of the culture and can sometimes be seen as confusing or insulting.
- Should I bow every time I say thank you?
- A slight nod of the head is sufficient for casual interactions. For formal greetings or showing deep gratitude to an elder, a deeper bow from the waist is appropriate.