Respecting local customs in Indonesia
Respect in Indonesia centers on modesty, using the right hand for interactions, and showing patience. Follow local codes of conduct by covering your shoulders and knees in temples and avoiding public displays of affection.
- Master the right-hand rule. Always use your right hand to give or receive items, to point at things, or to eat if using your hands. The left hand is traditionally considered unclean.
- Dress for the occasion. When visiting religious sites, ensure your shoulders and knees are covered. Carry a sarong in your day bag, as many temples will require you to wear one over your pants or skirt.
- Mind your feet and head. Never touch someone on the head, as it is considered the most sacred part of the body. Conversely, keep your feet on the floor; pointing your soles at someone or at a religious statue is deeply offensive.
- Practice 'Sabar' (Patience). Public displays of anger or frustration are frowned upon. If a bus is late or a service is slow, keep your tone calm and polite to ensure a positive resolution.
- Ask before photographing. Always ask for permission before taking a photo of a person or a religious ceremony. If someone says no, put your camera away immediately.
- Is tipping expected in Indonesia?
- Tipping is not mandatory. In upscale restaurants, a service charge is often included. Otherwise, rounding up your bill or leaving 10,000-20,000 IDR is appreciated.
- How should I address locals?
- Use 'Bapak' (sir/father) for older men or 'Ibu' (madam/mother) for older women to show respect. This simple gesture goes a long way.