How to Book Flights for Families with Children

Book family flights 6-8 weeks in advance, select seats together during booking (pay extra if needed), and choose aisle or bulkhead seats for easier access. Always travel with car seats for children under 2 and pack essential items in carry-on bags.

  1. Start booking 6-8 weeks before travel. Airlines release family-friendly seat blocks and pricing around this time. Avoid booking too early (seats not released) or too late (limited availability and higher prices).
  2. Choose the right flight times. Book flights during your children's natural sleep or calm periods. Red-eye flights work well for toddlers who sleep in cars. Avoid flights during typical meltdown times (4-6 PM for most kids).
  3. Pay for seat selection immediately. Airlines separate families unless you pay. Budget $25-75 extra per person for seat selection. Choose aisle seats for bathroom access or bulkhead for extra space and easier diaper changes.
  4. Book car seats as checked baggage. Most airlines allow one car seat per child at no extra charge. Use a car seat travel bag to protect it. Children under 2 can fly free as lap infants but are safer in their own seat with a car seat.
  5. Consider buying an extra seat for lap infants. Children under 2 fly free on your lap but have no baggage allowance. Buying them a seat gives you extra baggage, guaranteed space, and safety benefits. Infant tickets cost 50-75% of adult fares.
  6. Pack essentials in carry-on. Bring 2 days worth of formula/baby food, extra clothes for everyone, medications, and entertainment. The TSA allows unlimited formula, baby food, and breast milk through security.
Can I bring formula and baby food through security?
Yes, unlimited amounts. TSA allows formula, baby food, breast milk, and juice for children through security without the 3-1-1 liquid restrictions. Declare these items at security.
Should I book the bulkhead or regular seats?
Bulkhead gives you floor space for diaper changes and kids to play, but has no under-seat storage. Regular aisle seats offer easier bathroom access and storage space. Choose based on your children's ages and needs.
What if the airline splits up our family?
Ask the gate agent for help rebooking seats together. Passengers often volunteer to switch when they see families separated. However, paying for seat selection during booking guarantees you sit together.
Do I need to buy travel insurance for family trips?
Yes, especially with children who get sick unexpectedly. Family travel insurance costs $150-300 and covers trip cancellation, medical emergencies, and lost baggage. Essential for international travel.