How to plan a 10-day family trip to France
Pick 2-3 regions (Paris plus one or two others), book accommodation and trains before you go, plan 3-4 activities per day that mix kid-friendly attractions with what you want to see, and build in downtime. Ten days is enough to do France without rushing if you stay in 2-3 bases instead of moving every night.
- Choose your regions (week 1 of planning). For 10 days with kids, pick Paris plus one other region, or Paris plus two if one is close by. Paris alone takes 3-4 days. Good second regions: Provence (lavender, villages, beaches near Nice), Loire Valley (châteaux, gentle countryside, easy train access), or Brittany (beaches, crêpes, less crowded than south). Avoid trying to see more than two destinations outside Paris. Book your base accommodations before you finalize this—some towns have better family rentals than others.
- Book trains and transport (week 2). Book SNCF trains (the national rail service) for point-to-point travel. A Paris-to-Lyon train takes 2 hours; Paris-to-Nantes takes 2.5 hours. Avoid driving if you're used to right-hand cars and unfamiliar roads—it adds stress with kids. Book return train tickets 4-6 weeks ahead for better prices. Get a Navigo Découverte pass if you're doing multiple train trips in a week (around €90 for unlimited regional travel). Reserve seats on high-speed trains. Renting a car makes sense only if you're staying rural (Loire Valley châteaux hopping, Provence villages) for 5+ days.
- Book accommodation (weeks 2-3). Book one base in Paris (7 nights minimum), then a second base in your chosen region (3 nights). For families, apartment rentals (Airbnb, Vrbo) beat hotels—you get a kitchen to handle different meal preferences and cut food costs in half. Look for places with washer/dryer if you're packing light. In Paris, aim for 11th, 12th, or 14th arrondissements (more local, cheaper, family-friendly) rather than central tourist zones. Marais is also good for families but pricier. Reserve early if traveling July-August or Easter week.
- Plan your Paris days (week 3). Spend 3-4 days in Paris. Day 1: arrival, settle in, walk your neighborhood, early dinner. Day 2: Louvre or Musée d'Orsay (kids under 18 free), lunch, Tuileries Garden. Day 3: Eiffel Tower (book tickets online, go early), Seine boat ride, ice cream. Day 4 (if staying 4): Versailles as a day trip, or Montmartre + Sacré-Cœur + street performers. Build in parks, pastry breaks, and one rest afternoon. Skip Disneyland unless your kids specifically want it—it's 45 minutes outside the city and expensive.
- Plan your regional destination (week 3). If Loire Valley: pick one château base (Amboise or Blois), do 2-3 châteaux over 3 days, rest days in the town. If Provence: base in Avignon, do day trips to Pont du Gard, Arles, smaller villages like Gordes. If Brittany: base in a coastal town like Dinan or Saint-Malo, beaches and crêpes. Research specific kid-friendly attractions before going (petting farms, easy hikes, playgrounds near your base). Aim for 2 activities in the morning, lunch, 1 activity or rest in afternoon. One of those activities should be a playground or park—not everything needs to be a tourist site.
- Book activities and skip-the-line tickets (week 4). Book Eiffel Tower and Louvre tickets online in advance—they save 30-45 minutes and kids get discounts. Buy tickets through official websites (toureiffel.paris, louvre.fr), not resellers. For regional attractions, pre-booking helps on weekends and in July-August. Many museums offer free entry to EU children under 18; if you're traveling with non-EU kids, confirm policies. Build your activity calendar but leave 2-3 afternoons unscheduled for naps, parks, or spontaneous local discoveries.
- Set a realistic daily budget and tell your family (week 4). Decide whether you're eating one restaurant meal per day and cooking the other, or splitting meals differently. Brief your family on the money reality so there's no surprise when gelato isn't €1. Set a daily discretionary budget for kids (€10-15) so they can buy small souvenirs without negotiating each purchase. Confirm with your traveling partner whether certain sites are must-dos or flexible. Traveling with kids and unclear priorities creates friction—be explicit.
- Arrange childcare and school coverage (week 5). If pulling kids from school mid-year, request dates early. Email the teacher about homework expectations. Some schools will not provide work; many will. Arrange pet or plant care at home. Tell your doctor and dentist you're traveling (in case of emergency contact). Have prescriptions refilled before departure. Pack a list of emergency contacts and your travel insurance info.
- Get organized documents 4 weeks before (week 6). Passport check: all passports must be valid 6+ months beyond your return date. Order any new passports immediately if needed—expedited processing takes 2-3 weeks and costs extra. Print your flight confirmations, train tickets, apartment keys/entry codes, travel insurance policy, and hotel booking confirmations. Store them in your phone (photos) and carry paper copies. Make a document folder on your phone with the family's passport photos in case of loss.
- Pack smart (2 weeks before). Pack one shared suitcase and one personal bag per person. For a 10-day trip, each person needs 5-6 days of clothes; laundromats and apartment washers are fine. Kids need one dressier outfit for nicer restaurants (nothing elaborate—neat jeans and a shirt is fine). Pack medications and any special foods your kids need in carry-on. Bring copies of medical prescriptions. Lightweight layers work year-round in France. Check the weather forecast for your specific dates; winter can be cold and damp, summer is hot in the south.
- Brief the kids on expectations (1 week before). Tell them the itinerary in age-appropriate detail. Explain time zones and why their sleep schedule will be weird. Show them photos of where you're staying. Be honest about walk times—'we'll walk about 20 minutes to the Eiffel Tower' sets a realistic expectation. Let them pick 1-2 activities that matter to them so they feel invested. If they're old enough, teach basic French phrases (merci, bonjour, excuse-moi, oui) and play with pronunciation together. Kids engage more when they feel they've chosen something.
- Is 10 days too short for France?
- No, if you stay in 2-3 bases instead of moving daily. Spending 3-4 days in one place lets you rest and explore deeply without exhaustion. This is especially important with kids—constant hotel changes drain everyone.
- Should we rent a car?
- Only if you're spending most of your time in a rural region (Loire Valley, Provence) and have a confident driver. Paris traffic and European driving rules are stressful. Trains are cheaper, less stressful, and safer with tired kids. The exception: renting for 3-4 days in the countryside and returning it before heading back to Paris.
- How much screen time is reasonable on this trip?
- More than at home. Long train rides, rest afternoons, and downtime are legitimate screen time. Expect your kids to binge one show or play games during a 2-hour train. It's okay. Pack a few offline games or ebooks as backup.
- Can we take kids to nice restaurants?
- Yes. French restaurants are genuinely family-friendly—high chairs and kids' menus are normal. Dine early (6:30-7 pm) rather than the French 8:30 pm norm, so tired kids don't melt down. Budget one nicer dinner per trip (€40-60 per adult, €15-20 per kid); eat casual the other nights.
- What if we get sick or injured?
- French healthcare is excellent. Walk into any pharmacy (pharmacie) for minor issues—pharmacists can recommend treatments. For urgent care, find the nearest clinic (centre médical) or call 15 for an ambulance. Carry your travel insurance card and passport. Emergency care is expensive without insurance; don't assume credit cards cover it.
- Should we buy a rail pass or book individual tickets?
- For a single 2-hour Paris-to-Lyon trip, buy a regular SNCF ticket. If you're doing 4+ train trips in a week, a Navigo Découverte pass (€90) saves money. Check the math before buying—it depends entirely on your route.
- What if the kids don't like museums?
- Skip them or do short visits (30-45 minutes instead of 3 hours). France has amazing parks, playgrounds, and neighborhood exploration that don't require a museum. Your kids remembering the trip as fun matters more than checking every box. Versailles gardens and Seine walks are free and engaging for kids who hate indoors.