How to dress in India as a traveling couple

Dress modestly by keeping your shoulders and knees covered at all times to respect local customs and avoid unwanted attention. Focus on loose-fitting, breathable natural fabrics like cotton or linen to handle the heat and humidity comfortably.

  1. Master the layers for women. Pack lightweight scarves or pashminas. These are essential for covering your head or shoulders when entering temples, mosques, or more conservative rural areas.
  2. Choose the right fabrics. Stick to 100% cotton or linen. Synthetic fabrics like polyester trap sweat and heat, making them unbearable in the Indian climate. Light, loose-fitting trousers (like harem pants) or long skirts are ideal.
  3. Standardize for men. Men should avoid tank tops and short shorts, which are viewed as disrespectful in many public spaces. Opt for lightweight chinos or linen trousers and collared shirts or loose-fitting t-shirts.
  4. Footwear strategy. Bring slip-on shoes or sandals. You will be taking your shoes off constantly to enter religious sites or even some shops and homes, so avoid complicated lacing systems.
Can I wear shorts in India?
It is best to avoid shorts, especially in rural areas or religious sites. Long trousers or maxi skirts are the gold standard for respecting local culture.
Does my partner and I need to dress 'matchy-matchy'?
Not at all, but keeping your levels of formality similar helps you blend in better and ensures you both stay comfortable in the same settings.
Will I be hot if I cover up?
If you choose the right loose-fitting natural fabrics, covering up actually protects your skin from the sun and keeps you cooler than tight synthetic clothing.