How to navigate hostel etiquette in Southeast Asia

Follow hostel etiquette by keeping your belongings in a locker, silencing your phone, and cleaning up your shared bathroom space immediately. Respecting the 'quiet hours' and practicing common courtesy in dorms keeps you in the good graces of fellow travelers.

  1. Use the lockers every time. Do not leave your passport, electronics, or cash on your bed, even if you are just stepping out for five minutes. Most hostels provide lockers; bring your own sturdy combination padlock.
  2. Respect the 'No Packing' rule. If you are leaving early, pack your bag the night before. Avoid the sound of rustling plastic bags and zipping/unzipping at 5:00 AM. If you must pack, do it outside the dorm room.
  3. Mind your light and noise. Always use a headlamp or your phone’s flashlight pointed at the floor, never directly at someone's bunk. Keep all phone conversations in the common area, not in the dorm.
  4. Master communal bathroom manners. Wipe the sink after you brush your teeth and take your wet towel out of the shower stall. These bathrooms get heavy traffic; leave them as clean as you found them.
Is it rude to eat in the dorm room?
Yes. It attracts ants, cockroaches, and mice. Eat in the common area or the hostel bar.
Should I bring my own bed sheets?
No, hostels provide linens. However, a silk or cotton sleep sack is a great hygienic addition for overnight trains or budget hostels.
How do I handle the AC settings?
Never turn the AC off completely in a shared room without asking roommates. If it's too cold, use a sleep sheet or an extra layer.