How to respect local customs in the Middle East

Dress modestly with covered shoulders and legs, remove shoes when entering homes or mosques, use your right hand for greetings and eating, and learn basic Arabic greetings. Research specific country customs as practices vary significantly between UAE, Saudi Arabia, Iran, and other Middle Eastern nations.

  1. Master dress codes before you arrive. Pack loose-fitting clothes that cover shoulders, arms, and legs to the ankle. Bring a headscarf if you're a woman - required in mosques everywhere and in public in some countries. Avoid tight clothing, low necklines, and shorts. Men should wear long pants and collared shirts for religious sites.
  2. Learn the right-hand rule. Use your right hand for handshakes, eating, giving gifts, and pointing. Keep your left hand to yourself - it's considered unclean. If you're left-handed, practice eating with your right hand before traveling or politely explain your situation.
  3. Understand prayer time etiquette. Expect shops and restaurants to close 15-30 minutes during each of the five daily prayers. Don't schedule meetings during these times. In mosques, stay quiet during prayers and follow the lead of locals on when to sit, stand, or leave.
  4. Navigate social interactions respectfully. Greet with 'As-salaam alaikum' (peace be upon you) and respond with 'Wa alaikum as-salaam.' Men shouldn't initiate handshakes with women unless she extends her hand first. Accept hospitality graciously - refusing tea or coffee multiple times can be offensive.
  5. Follow photography rules. Never photograph people without permission, especially women. Avoid photos of government buildings, military sites, or police. Ask before photographing in markets or religious sites. Some countries prohibit photos of bridges or infrastructure.
  6. Respect Ramadan customs. During Ramadan, don't eat, drink, or smoke in public during daylight hours, even if you're not Muslim. Many restaurants close during the day. Plan for shorter business hours and expect different social rhythms.
Can I drink alcohol in Middle Eastern countries?
It depends entirely on the country. UAE, Jordan, and Lebanon serve alcohol in hotels and restaurants. Saudi Arabia and Iran prohibit it completely. Some countries allow alcohol only in designated tourist areas. Research your specific destination's laws.
What should I do if I accidentally offend someone?
Apologize sincerely and explain you're still learning local customs. Most people appreciate genuine effort and will forgive honest mistakes. Ask what you should do differently next time.
Are there different rules for men and women travelers?
Yes, particularly regarding dress codes, social interactions, and some public spaces. Women may need to cover more conservatively and might face restrictions in certain areas. Some mosques have separate entrances or sections for women.
How important is learning Arabic phrases?
Basic greetings and thank you phrases go a long way in showing respect. Many Middle Eastern countries have high English proficiency, but effort to use local language is always appreciated. Learn at least hello, thank you, and excuse me.
Can I visit mosques as a non-Muslim?
Most mosques welcome respectful non-Muslim visitors outside prayer times, though some require guided tours. Always remove shoes, dress modestly, and follow posted rules. Women typically need headscarves and may have separate entrances.