How to book long-haul flights with young children
Book long-haul flights with young children by selecting child-friendly airlines, choosing seats strategically (bulkhead or bassinet rows), and booking at least 6-8 weeks ahead to secure adjacent seats. Most airlines offer lap infant tickets for children under 2, but consider purchasing a separate seat for safety and comfort on flights over 8 hours.
- Choose child-friendly airlines. Research airlines known for good family service. Singapore Airlines, Emirates, and Qatar Airways offer dedicated kids' meal options, entertainment systems, and bassinets. Budget airlines like Southwest (US) and Jetstar (Asia-Pacific) allow free seat selection for families traveling together.
- Book early for seat selection. Book 6-8 weeks ahead to secure adjacent seats. Most airlines release seat maps 330 days before departure but the best family seats (bulkhead, bassinet rows) fill quickly. Call the airline directly if the website won't let you select seats together.
- Decide on lap infant vs. purchased seat. Children under 2 can fly as lap infants for 10% of adult fare (international) or free (domestic US). For flights over 8 hours, consider buying a separate seat - it's safer and more comfortable. You can bring an FAA-approved car seat if you purchase a seat.
- Select strategic seating. Request bulkhead seats for extra legroom and bassinet attachment points (for babies under 20-25 lbs). Aisle seats give you space to walk with fussy children. Avoid seats near lavatories due to foot traffic and noise.
- Pre-order special services. Request bassinets when booking (limited quantity, first-come-first-served). Order children's meals 24-48 hours before departure. Some airlines offer priority boarding for families - confirm when checking in.
- Review baggage allowances. Most airlines allow one free checked stroller and car seat per child. Pack extra diapers, formula, and snacks in carry-on - you're allowed additional liquid allowances for baby formula and food. Bring documentation proving child's age for lap infants.
- Can I bring formula and baby food through security?
- Yes, baby formula, breast milk, and baby food are exempt from the 3-1-1 liquid rule. Bring reasonable quantities and be prepared to have them tested by TSA. You don't need to taste formula in front of security.
- What if my toddler has a meltdown on the plane?
- Stay calm and use distractions like snacks, tablets, or walking the aisles. Most passengers understand traveling with children is challenging. Flight attendants can sometimes help with extra ice or small toys.
- Is it worth upgrading to premium economy with kids?
- On flights over 10 hours, the extra space in premium economy is usually worth it. You get more legroom for kids to move around and often better meal options. The cost is typically $200-800 more per person.
- How early should I arrive at the airport with children?
- Arrive 3 hours early for international flights, 2 hours for domestic. Allow extra time for stroller gate-check, security lines with kids, and potential diaper changes. Many airports have family security lines that move faster.