What if I'm naturally introverted?

Start with structured activities like tours where conversation topics are built-in. Listen more than you talk initially, then ask follow-up questions about what people share.

How do I avoid people who just want free drinks or meals?

Suggest activities that cost money upfront, like paid tours or museums. Real friends will split costs fairly and suggest their own activities to do together.

Is it safe to meet people from apps?

Meet in public places during daytime first. Tell someone at your accommodation where you're going. Trust your instincts and leave if anything feels off.

What if language barriers are an issue?

Use translation apps, but also try activities that don't require much talking like hiking, museums, or sports. Many travelers speak some English as a common language.

How to Make Friends While Traveling Solo

Stay in hostels with common areas, join group activities like walking tours or cooking classes, and use apps like Meetup or Bumble BFF. Start conversations by asking for recommendations or offering to share a table at restaurants.

Choose social accommodation. Book hostels with common areas, shared kitchens, or communal spaces. Avoid private hotels. Look for places with high ratings for 'atmosphere' on Hostelworld.
Join group activities on day one. Book walking tours, pub crawls, or cooking classes within 24 hours of arriving. Free walking tours work best because everyone's in the same curious mindset.
Use your phone strategically. Download Meetup, Bumble BFF, or local Facebook groups before you arrive. Search for 'expats in [city]' or '[city] travelers' groups.
Master the art of shared spaces. Eat breakfast in hostel common areas, not your room. Cook dinner in shared kitchens. Work from co-working spaces or busy cafes with communal tables.
Start conversations with purpose. Ask 'What's the one thing I shouldn't miss here?' or 'Where did you go today?' People love giving recommendations and sharing experiences.
Say yes to invitations. When someone mentions plans for later, express interest. 'That sounds fun, mind if I join?' works 90% of the time.

What if I'm naturally introverted?: Start with structured activities like tours where conversation topics are built-in. Listen more than you talk initially, then ask follow-up questions about what people share.
How do I avoid people who just want free drinks or meals?: Suggest activities that cost money upfront, like paid tours or museums. Real friends will split costs fairly and suggest their own activities to do together.
Is it safe to meet people from apps?: Meet in public places during daytime first. Tell someone at your accommodation where you're going. Trust your instincts and leave if anything feels off.
What if language barriers are an issue?: Use translation apps, but also try activities that don't require much talking like hiking, museums, or sports. Many travelers speak some English as a common language.